A Boys To Men USA Program
Boys To Men University
Preserving and sharing our learnings for generations to come
Scalability - Reliability - Sustainability - Legacy
Boys To Men USA serves our regional centers with training opportunities, program and administrative best practices, and technology support.
We are committed to fostering sustainable growth for our Centers by collaborating, documenting, evolving, protecting, and sharing what we learn.
Boys To Men University is the embodiment of everything Boys To Men USA was originally created to do. This is how we accelerate and scale the growth of this critical work.
We now are in our fourth year of active Boys To Men University development, and it’s time to shift into a higher gear.
We invite you to be a part of the exciting new future we are creating for our boys and the Centers that support them.
—The 2026 Boys To Men USA Board of Directors
BOARD OFFICERS
DaveBolduc
Chair
Scott "Corky" Sigurdson
Vice Chair
Walter Augustine
Secretary
JohnDavis
Treasurer
MEMBERS AT LARGE
Michael Bonahan
Mirabai Galashan
AlNodarse
JoeSigurdson
TomSteger
AttilaTota
The Problem
The Boy Crisis Is Real
Teen boys get real when mentors offer kind, patient, and non-judgmental listening.
Houston RTF Training, August 2025.
Boys are falling behind—and the data is unambiguous:
1½ years
42%
share of college students who are male2
~80%
youth suicide deaths under 25 are male3
70%
of school suspensions
are boys4
93%
sentenced prison population is male5
1 in 4
children grow up without a father6
These aren’t isolated statistics. They represent a systemic crisis affecting boys’ development, mental health, and life trajectory.
Meanwhile, Big Brothers Big Sisters carries a 30,000-child waiting list.7 The demand for what we do has never been higher.
Early intervention through mentoring can dramatically alter these outcomes—Boys To Men Mentoring has been proving this since 1996.
WHY A PROGRAM FOR BOYS?
Supporting Boys Benefits Everyone
OUR FOCUS
Focusing on boys doesn’t mean ignoring girls. Many excellent programs serve girls—and they should. But boys face a distinct set of challenges that have gone unaddressed for too long.
Boys need safe space where they can be honest and drop their defenses. Boys operate differently in all-male spaces—they’re more willing to be vulnerable, to admit struggles, to drop defensive postures.
Research shows boys behave differently when girls are present, particularly around emotions and perceived weakness.8 They “perform” strength as an “act”. They suppress what they actually feel, and often do not even have language to describe their feelings.
HOW IT WORKS
Boys To Men Mentoring’s precepts—Listen, Accept, Model, and Praise—shift a teen boy’s sense of himself and his place in the world.
Our methodology rewires default teen behavior patterns, creates psychological safety, and allows boys to process and understand their emotions in ways that produce profound changes for a better life.
When boys feel better, they do better
Making a difference since 1996
Impact Statement
We’ve come a long way from a humble backyard football game.
This work has taken on a life of its own.
It’s been 30 years now, but we’re just getting started.
BTMUSA Total Network Impact
BTMUSA State of the Network, 2024/2025
1,898
youth served
348
mentors
118
mentoring circles
157+
Journeymen*
117
schools & community sites
$3.36M
annual budget
Reflects 2024/2025 combined network data for 13 centers.9
*Excludes Journeymen for San Diego center.
The current challenge
How do we scale?
What we’ve built works.
What we haven’t fully solved is how to scale without losing what makes it powerful.
When a new community wants to launch, they’re navigating a complex multi-year process without a clear and complete roadmap.
Before the pandemic, there were 32 Boys To Men centers operating in the US, but in 2026, we are down to 11 operational centers.
We’ve lost good people, but we haven’t lost what makes this program great…
Boys To Men Network Centers, 2026
| # | Center | Location | Status |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Boys To Men San Diego | San Diego, CA | ✅ Operational |
| 2 | Boys To Men Hawaii | Hawaiian Islands | ✅ Operational |
| 3 | Boys To Men Mentoring Virginia | Richmond, VA | ✅ Operational |
| 4 | Journeymen Triangle | Raleigh, NC | ✅ Operational |
| 5 | Our Greater Good | Valparaiso, IN | ✅ Operational |
| 6 | Boys To Men SW | Southwest Colorado | ✅ Operational |
| 7 | Journeymen | Vashon, WA | ✅ Operational |
| 8 | Boys To Men NorCal | Sacramento, CA | ✅ Operational |
| 9 | Boys To Men Tucson | Tucson, AZ | ✅ Operational |
| 10 | Boys To Men Mentoring of Greater Washington | Washington, DC | ✅ Operational |
| 11 | Mentoring To Manhood New England | New England | ✅ Operational |
| 12 | Boys To Men Mentoring Michigan | Wayne, Oakland & Macomb Counties | 🌱 Startup |
| 13 | Boys To Men Texas | Houston, TX | ❓ TBD |
| 14 | Boys To Men Denver | Denver, CO | ❓ TBD |
| 15 | Boys To Men Phoenix | Phoenix, AZ | ❓ TBD |
If you work with a Boys To Men Mentoring program that’s not on this list, we would love to hear from you!
Please reach out to us via our Contact form.
To train effective new facilitators and mentors, we need to capture and convey all the nuance and intention that comes from the vision and deep inner commitment of our senior leaders. Simply “writing down what they said” does not begin to do it justice.
Because in 50 years, we don’t want people guessing what our co‑founders Craig McClain and Joe Sigurdson said or meant.
We also need a way to ease the common administrative and training burdens of every center while allowing for center autonomy and innovation. The level of effort it takes to deliver this program can be overwhelming. Burnout is common. And the impact of failure is devastating.
The methodology is only as strong as our ability to pass it on.
The Solution
What is Boys To Men University?
Joe Sigurdson co-leads the 2025 August RTF in Houston with a senior BTMUSA team.
Boys To Men University is a national online mentor training and Center resources portal—purpose-built for existing and emerging BTM Centers. It’s a platform that helps mentors, facilitators, and center leaders with critical training, operations, and ongoing community development.
Key advantages include:
It’s a critical resource for mentors, facilitators, and center leaders—so they can spend less time on administration and more time with the boys.
Boys To Men University is a program of Boys To Men USA.
What Boys To Men University isn't...
- It's not a physical campus.
- It's not a degree program.
- It's not a place to send boys to get "fixed."
Boys To Men UniversityTraining & Development Tracks
Mentor Track
Level 1 Mentoring Fundamentals
Facilitator Track
Level 2 / Facilitator Training
TTT Track
Train The Trainers
Governance
- Board Development
- Operations Library
- Center Leader Peer Community
Supplemental
- Fundraising
- Suicide Awareness
- Data Collection & more…
Community
- Mentor Support Community
- National Calls
Success Stories
Boys To Men Virginia sees +197% growth
Boys To Men Virginia (BTMVA) created +197% growth in the 6 years since the pandemic (~20% per year), and continues to grow for the 2025/26 school year.
Some key metrics:
BTMVA has seen +197% growth in the 6 years post-pandemic.
BTMVA bounced back after the pandemic by focusing on what they knew worked: regular mentor training; a team development orientation; strong partnerships with local school systems, colleges, and law enforcement; consistent circle facilitation; and a board unified behind the vision.
The numbers tell part of the story. What happens in the circle tells the rest:
"You guys are an amazing group. My son has had a lot of heartache in his life and didn't feel his life was worth living and felt that everyone hated him. He attempted suicide twice before finding Boys To Men Mentoring.
"Since he started we have seen a major change in his attitude towards life. He is actually making plans for his future again! He walks with his shoulders up instead of down and his head held high.
"Thank you all for all of your hard work this year in helping my teen see that he is worth so much more than he knows. What you have done for him and our family is priceless."
— Parent of a Mentee, BTMVA, 2025"If it was not for Steven bringing me to Boys to Men, getting me involved with these circles, I could be spending twenty-five to life right now."
— Jeff, BTM Virginia alumnus"I just love the organization so much. This is my whole life. When I had nothing, I had them."
— Robert, BTMVA MentorLasting Impact
Robert joined Boys To Men Virginia 14 years ago as a boy. He now has a son of his own, has stopped the cycle in his own family, and now volunteers as a BTMVA Mentor.
BTMVA is just one success story, and there are more.
We can use success stories as templates to replicate those successes.
Boys To Men University is the container for that know-how.
The Plan
The Development Roadmap
Boys To Men University will be built in four phases over three years.
Boys To Men University—Project Timeline
Projected kickoff Q1 2027 · Father-Son Weekend fundraising Oct 2026
| Phase | Q1 '27 | Q2 '27 | Q3 '27 | Q4 '27 | Q1 '28 | Q2 '28 | Q3 '28 | Ongoing |
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| Phase 1Mentor Track—RTF L1 |
Mentor Track (RTF L1) · 6 months
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| Phase 2Facilitator Track—L2 |
Facilitator Track (L2) · 6 months
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| Phase 3Governance Track |
Governance Track · 6 months
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| Phase 4Ongoing Operations |
Ongoing Operations -->
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| Level of Effort | 1.25 FTE | 1.25 FTE | 1.25 FTE | 0.5 FTE | ||||
| Budget | $71,000 | $65,000 | $65,000 | $32,500 / yr | ||||
Phase 1 is where it begins. It doesn't start until it's funded.
PHASE 1 FUNDING
Help us close the gap
(projected) — 56%
for Phase 1 BTMU
Goal
Please support Boys To Men University via the today. Even a modest monthly gift helps us meet this critical fundraising goal.
Father-Son Weekend is a BTM University fundraiser, projected to get us more than halfway to our Phase 1 target.
Your donation closes the gap and gets Boys To Men University Phase 1 off the ground.
Notes & Sources
- OECD (2022). PISA 2022 Results: Factsheets. Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development.
- National Center for Education Statistics (2023). Digest of Education Statistics. U.S. Department of Education.
- CDC WISQARS (2022). Web-based Injury Statistics Query and Reporting System. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
- U.S. Department of Education, Office for Civil Rights. Civil Rights Data Collection, 2021–22.
- Carson, E.A. (2023). Prisoners in 2022. Bureau of Justice Statistics, U.S. Department of Justice.
- U.S. Census Bureau (2023). Current Population Survey: America’s Families and Living Arrangements.
- Big Brothers Big Sisters of America. 2023 Annual Impact Report. bbbs.org.
- Way, N. (2011). Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection. Harvard University Press.
- Boys To Men USA. 2024 Network Center Survey. Internal data.
- Boys To Men Virginia. 2024–25 Annual Program Report. Internal data.